“But you, stand here by me…You shall be careful therefore to do as the LORD your God has commanded you.  You shall not turn aside to the right hand or to the left.  You shall walk in all the way that the LORD your God has commanded you, that you may live, and that it may go well with you, and that you may live long in the land that you possess.”  Deuteronomy 5:31-33


As I awoke this morning, my first thought was, “Today is the first day of Mom’s chemo treatments.” Mom was diagnosed with Stage 2 breast cancer and will have 4 rounds of chemo followed by radiation.

Mom has been positive and brave about the journey before her; but still, the idea of cancer, chemo and radiation can be overwhelming and cause anxiety, so I’ve prayed many times in anticipation of this day, and I prayed again this morning.

I prayed for Mom’s health and wellness, and for God to be with her throughout any struggles and difficulties she might face.  I prayed for God to help me be a good caregiver – to help me be attentive, patient, gracious and kind; to help me be sensitive to Mom’s needs and to know what to do if any problems arise.

God’s reply surprised me – not just that I heard a reply, but also what He said:

Just stick with Me, kid.”

What?  His reply was funny to me at first.  Then, after thinking about it for a moment, God’s reply made perfect sense. It’s the message God gave frequently to people of the Bible before they faced challenges or entered into battle.  “Just stick with Me” was the commandment God gave the Israelites as they made their way through the wilderness in pursuit of the Promised Land.

God demonstrated the importance of His instruction to “just stick with Him” when Moses led the Israelites into battle against Amalek.  The Bible tells us that Moses stood on top of a hill, keeping his staff raised, while the Israelites battled the Amalekites.  As long as Moses kept his staff raised, the Israelites were winning, but when the staff lowered, the Amalekites would prevail.  As Moses’ arm tired, he sat on a rock while Aaron (Moses’ brother) and Hur stood beside him to support his arm and keep the staff raised high, thus giving the Israelites victory over the Amalekites.  By sticking with God – and relying on a little help from his friends – Moses found favor with God and was victorious. (Exodus 17:8-16)

God also reminded Joshua to “just stick with Me’ when Joshua faced challenging times. God instructed Joshua to keep his focus on the Lord and trust in Him.  Joshua’s obedience and trust in the Lord served him well.  Remember how Joshua successfully crossed of the River Jordan, leading the Israelites into the Promised Land? (Joshua, chapters 1-4) There was also the battle of Jericho when the walls came tumbling down.  (Joshua, chapter 6)   “By faith the walls of Jericho fell down…” Hebrews 11:30

When God says, “Just stick with Me, kid,” He is reminding us that, as long as we remain faithful to Him, trust in Him, and follow as He leads, He will be with us in challenging times (be with me to help my Mom), guide us through our journeys, and give us strength for the battles along the way (like Mom facing cancer).

What are your challenges today?  Are you on a “journey” or facing one ahead?  What battles are you or your loved ones going through?  Whatever it is, God’s message to you is, “Just stick with Me, kid.”

NOTES:  There are many examples of God helping people prepare for tough times and face challenges.  To read about the examples shared above and other stories, you can go to http://www.Biblegateway.com  Look for the Bible passages above or search for other stories and people of the Bible.  You can also search for key words like “battle” or “courage.”

With blessings,



Deuteronomy 5:32 You shall be careful therefore to do as the Lord your God has commanded you. You shall not turn aside to the right hand or to the left.

With the controversial finish of the 2019 Kentucky Derby horse race, we all saw the importance of staying in our own lanes.

I was reminded of this several times this week while driving to West Virginia and back.  Three times vehicles threatened our safety by veering into my lane, and I saw a near mishap when a distracted driver was weaving along the lane lines ahead of me; and truth be told, a truck had to honk at me in a tight construction zone when I accidentally drifted toward his lane.

The Bible tells us to stay in our own lane.  It warns against gossiping, and the story of the woman accused of adultery teaches that it’s not our job to be judge and jury, especiallly when we are not without blame ourselves.  We are to stay in our own lanes by being more concerned about tending to our own behavior than we are about condemning others.     (Book of John, chapter 8)

The Bible also instructs us to keep our eyes on the Lord, and not be distracted by the many things around us – busyness, jobs, modern day idols,  etc.    God wants us to stay in our our own lanes by being focused forward in faith.  The Bible literally says, do not turn aside to the left or to the right.  (Deuteronomy 5:32)

Staying focused on what matters and looking forward in faith will give us “maximum security” for staying in our own lanes and helping others do the same.   Now that’s a winning strategy!

2 Corinthians 12:20 For I fear that perhaps when I come I may find you not as I wish… that perhaps there may be quarreling, jealousy, anger, hostility, slander, gossip, conceit, and disorder.

1 Timothy 5:13  Besides that, they learn to be idlers, going about from house to house, and not only idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying what they should not.

John, chapter 8  Story of woman accused of adultery  (“cast the first stone”)

Deuteronomy 5:32 You shall be careful therefore to do as the Lord your God has commanded you. You shall not turn aside to the right hand or to the left.    

Deuteronomy 4:15-16  Therefore, watch yourselves carefully…beware lest you act corruptly…

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My Facebook feed showed a post by a friend who’s a promoter of “one word” themes for the new year.  (@RachelOlsen)  One of her followers replied with her “one word” for 2019.   Reading the post, I thought, ‘“I’m not a ‘one word ‘person.  It’s a nice idea, but not for me.”   Just as I was completing that thought, the Voice (God) abruptly broke into my thoughts.  speaking as clear as the light of day, with (you guessed it) one word, “Disciplines.”  

I would loved to have seen the look of surprise on my face as I heard the word “disciplines.”   I didn’t think I was a “one word” person, but apparently God disagreed and thought I needed to be made aware of the word on which He wants me to focus.  My reaction: “Really?  Of all the words You could give me – ‘disciplines?’  Not something like ‘joy,’ ‘creativity,’ ‘kindness,’ or even ‘humility’ (the last word I chose a few years ago and am still working on), but ‘disciplines?’ OK.  I get it, and You are right.  I need to get back to my disciplines.” 

I knew what God was referring to.  I used to live by what I called my spiritual disciplines – disciplined time for prayer,  reading/studying my Bible,  and worship.  I got up early to have quiet time to pray before starting my day.  As soon as the boys were off to school, I sat down to do my Bible studies.  I pursued worship through Sunday services and other church activities.

Please be assured I still pray, read/study my Bible and worship, but it’s been a while since I’ve pursued these things in a disciplined way, and last year didn’t help.

2018 was a year when one difficult thing happened after another, sometimes more than one situation happening at once. Faith, prayers, reading my Bible, and the support of  loved ones and Christian friends got me through each challenge and difficulty, but I wasn’t disciplined.

My hope for 2019 is that it will  put 2018 behind me and allow me to get life back on track.  Responding to that hope, God replied with the one word He knew I needed to do just that – “disciplines.”

After thinking it through, I smiled.  “Thank You, God.  I did need “one word,” and “disciplines” is just the word I need.  

Exodus 23:16 [Full Chapter]   (www.BibleGateway.com link) 

“Celebrate the Festival of Harvest with the firstfruits of the crops you sow in your field. “Celebrate the Festival of Ingathering at the end of the year, when you gather in your crops from the field.

I’m one of those people who wants to enjoy Thanksgiving before jumping into all the craziness of the holidays.  History tells us that the first Thanksgiving was about gratitude, sharing and reaching out to others.  Times had been harsh for the Pilgrims trying to survive at Plymouth.  Many perished.  Those who survived did so with help from the Indians.  To celebrate their first harvest and show appreciation to their new friends, the Pilgrims broke bread with the Indians.

Being faithful Christians, I imagine they began with prayer, focusing not on their struggles, losses and things they were without; but instead givng thanks for what they did have – shelter, food, each other and their very own lives.  In giving thanks, they displayed hope for their future, even though life was very bleak at times.

After delivering the Israelites from the Egyptians, God explained to the Israelites that He wanted to set them apart from others as a holy nation.  He began teaching them what it meant to be holy and live righteously.  One of God’s instructions was to hold a Festival of Harvest to celebrate the firstfruits of the crops they would sow and grow, and then celebrate the Festival of Ingathering at the end of they year after they had gathered in their crops.  It seems likely to me that this was the inspiration for the first Thanksgiving.  The Pilgrims may have observed this religious tradition in their native country, but Thanksgiving at Plymouth would be different.  The Pilgrims included the Indians, wanting to not only give praise and thanksgiving to God, but also to show appreciation and gratitude to the Indians.

Observing Thanksgiving is the perfect way to center our hearts before getting caught up in the busyness of Christmas.  This year I’m going to do something new, something I’ll call THANKS(4)GIVING.

In the spirit of the first Thanksgiving that was about gratitude, sharing and reaching out to others, I’m going to send notes or messages to people letting them know I’m thankful for something they’ve done that blessed, helped or inspired me.  I’m going to tell them, “Thanks for giving” of themselves.  My gratitude will be for their kind or encouraging words, help they gave,  an opportunity provided, or kindness shown.  The recipients might be people I know well, or someone I’ve never met whose words or story  made a positive difference.  Maybe it will be a teacher who made difference for my child,  the worker at a business I frequent whose positive, cheerful attitude brightens my day,  someone who went above and beyond what was expected of them. or a dear friend who’s good and godly ways inspire me – like an elderly friend who sometimes despairs, but stays strong in faith.

It is my hope that THANKS(4)GIVING will not just prepare my heart with appreciation and gratitude, but also be a gesture of positivity and encouragement for others.

I challenge myself to send a THANKS(4)GIVING note or message to at least 4 people, and I challenge you to do the same!

May you have a happy and blessed Thanksgiving.  Be sure to save room in your tummy for dessert, and room in your heart for thanks and giving!

“Thanks be to God for his unspeakable gift.” – 2 Corinthians 9:15 KJV

” I have not stopped giving thanks for you, remembering you in my prayers.” – Ephesians 1:16 NIV

Blessings to all,





“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18


Hearing that Dad had been re-admitted to ICU with pneumonia and fluid on his lungs six days after having open heart surgery did not seem like a time to rejoice as the verse above instructs – especially when I lived far away and could not  be there with him during this set-back. Time to pray without ceasing? Yes. Definitely. Time to give thanks in all these circumstances? Actually, yes, and as I considered the many reasons I had to be thankful, I realized that, actually, it was a time to rejoice, too. 


I was thankful Dad had been able to have surgery and especially thankful he survived the procedure. Surgery had been risky for him. I was thankful I could go to Indiana and spend time with Dad before surgery. Neither of us said it, but we both knew it could have been the last time we saw each other on this side of heaven. I was thankful for his faith and acceptance of God’s will for his life. 


As Dad strives to recover, I’m thankful  that Carolyn loves him and takes good care of him; and I am very thankful for the doctors, nurses and caregivers at Community North Heart Hospital in Indianapolis. They’re skills, care and treatment have been excellent!


I’m also thankful for everyone who has prayed, encouraged, cared and offered support for Dad. I am beyond blessed to know so many kind and caring people! 


With all those reasons to be thankful, how could I not also feel like rejoicing? 


In times like these, when we worry about loved ones or go through personal struggles, our greatest reason to rejoice is for the love, hope and joy we have in Jesus Christ. 


We can also rejoice that each day is a new day, a God-given gift, bringing new mercies, new opportunities, new possibilities, and new hope. Sometimes it’s hard to feel those things in tough times, but these are truths – promises from God – that we can hold onto.


Today I have a new reason to rejoice and give thanks. It’s Day 19 after open heart surgery, and Dad seems to have finally stabilized. (Thank You, Lord!)  He is being moved to rehab today.  Dad is 85, still weak, and not completely “his old self” yet, so rehab and recovery will take some time, but in response to prayers of many, it appears that God has blessed Dad with the time he needs. I can certainly give thanks and rejoice about that!   

Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer.  – Romans 12:12

My 85-year old dad had open heart surgery six days ago.  The procedure went well – praise the Lord – but he has been in constant pain since.  Consequently, he has been on various pain medicines, some that cause him to be in a “drug fog.”  He becomes groggy, slow to speak, wants to communicate but can’t think of the words he needs to say, and sometimes becomes confused and agitated.  When he is awake, Dad pleads for us to help him with the pain, then he seeks God’s help saying, “Lord, help me.  Help me, Lord.”  He does the same when he is asleep and in a “drug fog,” saying  aloud, “Lord, help me.”

Did you catch what I just said?  Dad calls upon the Lord when he’s awake, and he also speaks aloud to God when he’s sleeping and even when his mind is altered by medication.   Dad’s default is prayer!

It’s not unusual to cry out to God for help when we are desperate or struggling.  Even those who don’t keep a relationship with God will do that at times, but to call upon the name of the Lord in one’s sleep and when one is not able to have conscious thoughts is inspiring.

I thought about this as I drove home to Charlotte from Indianapolis.  Would I be the same way?  I pray when I am awake and conscious, but where do my subconscious thoughts go?  If I were crying out in my sleep or under the effects of medications, what would I say?  Do I keep such a close and constant relationship with God that I would call upon the Lord to help me?

Jesus prayed.   The Bible tells of many times when Jesus prayed – often separating himself from the crowds, and even the disciples, to pray.  He needed to connect with the Father.  Jesus prayed to honor God, intercede on behalf of others, and seek discernment and strength.  He pleaded with God, agonized with God, and cried out to God in pain and suffering.  His default was prayer.

Luke 3:21 (Jesus prays after His baptism during which time the Holy Spirit descended upon Him), Mark 1:35 (Jesus rose early, while it was still dark, and departed from the others to pray, spending time with God before preaching to the crowds), Luke 11:1-4 (while Jesus prayed, the disciples approached and asked Him to teach them to pray, and Jesus taught them The Lord’s prayer), Luke 9:18 (Jesus was praying alone),  John 17 – The High Priestly Prayer (Jesus honors the Father, prays for Himself, His disciples, and all believers).

Perhaps the most well known prayer of Jesus is recorded in the Gospel writings of Matthew 26:36-56, Mark 14:32-52, Luke 22:39-53 and John 18:1-11 when Jesus went to Garden of Gethsemane to pray (“as it was his custom to do”). After their Passover meal (The Last Supper), Jesus took the disciples with him to the Garden of Gethsemane and prayed in preparation for his arrest and crucifixion, when He would bear the sins of all mankind by allowing Himself to be a sacrifice for the sins of all.  At times Jesus was in such agony while praying that he was sweating drops of blood.

Luke 23:34 Jesus prays to ask the Father for forgiveness for those who mock and crucify Him.

Each Gospel records that Jesus’ final words were to the Father before taking His last breath.  Even in death, His default was prayer.

In Mark 10:30 Jesus said, “I and the Father are one.”     He remained one with the Father through prayer.

My dad went into open heart surgery weak and frail.  His surgeon said he was “very fragile” so they would take him through recovery “slow and easy.”   Because of this, his teams of caregivers were amazed when Dad became ahead of schedule in recovery!  They couldn’t explain it, but I could.  I knew it was because of his faith and prayers, and the prayers of many others on his behalf (thank you Facebook family and friends who prayed for him!).

Dad has a long road of recovery ahead of him, so prayers are still appreciated.  I am thankful for my dad’s faith and the opportunity I had to observe that his default is prayer.  The Bible says that Jesus is still praying for us, sitting at the right hand of God the Father, Almighty, interceding on our behalf. (Romans 8:34, Mark 16:19, Acts 7:55, Hebrews 12:2) We can all be encouraged and have hope through Jesus because His default is still prayer.  Praise be to God, and thank You, Jesus!

Lord Jesus, thank You for teaching us to pray and for defaulting to prayer on our behalf.  Please help me set my default to prayer, too.  In Your precious name I pray, Amen.  

UPDATE ON MY DAD (May 2, 2018):  Dad was taken by ambulance  from rehab back to hospital with pneumonia and possible blood clot in his lung.  Dad is at peace with God and accepting of God’s will for his life, but those of us who love him pray that it be God’s will to grant him healthy days on this side of heaven.

Want to read the referenced verses, learn more about Jesus, or read other Books of the Bible?   Go to http://www.BibleGateway.com    You can look up scripture by verse or topic (I searched “Jesus prayed”), do research, and even hear the Bible read to you!





Last week a young woman was found guilty of manslaughter for using text messages to convince her boyfriend to commit suicide and instruct him on how to do it.  They were teenagers at the time.  He had just graduated from high school and was preparing to go to college.  She was in another town 35 miles away, but her words were powerful enough  through her text messages  to convince him to take his life.

I was intrigued by this case and curious how the judge would rule.  One analyst said the guilty verdict showed that the words were viewed as a weapon.  Legal analysts will debate the outcome of the trial, but I think most will agree this case proves that words matter.

Words have the power to build up, instruct, inform, inspire, give healing and hope, and share love.  Words also have the power to inflict pain, tear down, be destructive, spread hate, and even destroy lives.

The Bible says:  “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” (Epheshians 4:29  ESV)

The same verse in New Living Translation says: “Don’t use foul or abusive language.  Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear.”  (Ephesians 4:29 NLT)

New International Version: “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”    (Ephesians 4:29 NIV)

I’m guilty of talking too much and speaking with a sharp tongue when I’m mad, impatient or upset.  Ephesians 4:29 reminds me to not share every thought that comes into my head, but only say what is necessary to build others up or help a situation, and to choose my words carefully.

My mom has often told me that it’s not what I say, but the tone in which I speak that gets me into trouble.  In other words, it’s not just what we say, but the attitude and emotions behind our words that can cause problems.

The Bible instructs us to speak in a way that is gracious for those who hear, for the purpose of doing good, not causing harm.

I once shared this verse with a group of 7th graders.  After we talked about it, one of the students said it reminded her of Thumper in the story of Bambi, when Thumper said, “If you can’t say somethin’ nice, don’t say nothin’ at all.”  Good advice, Thumper.

However, I hope more people choose to speak up, not keep quiet, finding ways to share words of kindness and grace for the purpose of encouraging, comforting, building up and sharing love.

Who can you encourage or inspire today?

For more on this topic, see my related post titled “The Power of Positive Speaking”, and go to http://www.Biblegateway.com to learn what the Bible says about “speech” and “encouragement.”

God bless you.  🙂


God’s breath of life was the umbilical cord for the creation of each of us.  That cord was never cut.  We are forever connected to God; thus we have an intrinsic need for Him that nothing else can fulfill.  The umbilical cord is the source of life for a developing fetus, providing everything it needs to survive.  As Christians, our connection to God is through Jesus by the power of the Holy Spirit, giving our souls all that we need to thrive and survive.

The Holy Spirit is our Helper and Counselor, to lead, guide, speak to our inner souls, and give comfort, peace, healing and hope so that we will grow in faith to better serve the Kingdom of Christ and bring glory to God, the Father.

That is why we celebrate Pentecost today.  It was at Pentecost, that the Holy Spirit gifted and empowered those who were present so that they could begin ministering to others and start building Christ’s church.  That same Spirit is alive today, seeking to empower us and dwell within us that we will grow deeper in faith and stronger in the love, grace and peace of Jesus the Christ, our Savior and Lord.

Praise be to God.

To read the story of Pentecost, go to Acts chapter 2.  For more, about Pentecost and the Holy Spirit go to http://www.BibleGateway.com

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to His great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you…    – 1 Peter 1:3-4

You’ve heard it said that to everything there is a season. That saying comes from Ecclesiastes Ch 3.  Seasons were promised by God in Genesis 1:14.

We have Calendar Seasons:

  • Spring – new life
  • Summer – warmth, long days
  • Fall – changing colors, waning days, cooler temps
  • Winter – cold, bleak, longer nights, end of year

We have Seasons of Life:

  • Spring – birth and young life (babies, children, teens, youth)
  • Summer – prime of life
  • Fall – physical changes, slowing of life,
  • Winter – final stages of life, death

In the Seasons of Life, winter is associated with death, but is winter really about death?  Winter is actually a season of preparation for the spring to come!  During winter the landscape might look stark and bare, but underneath the ground, trees and shrubs are growing stronger by extending and deepening their roots.  Seeds and bulbs are establishing themselves by sprouting new roots down in the soil.  When spring arrives, sprouts will push up through the ground, and soon the new plants will bud and bloom.  Winter is also the season with longer nights that gives people and animals time for rest.  In God’s created world, winter is not a time of death, but a time when God is at work in ways we can’t see to make His creations stronger and prepare for new life.

The picture on my calendar is the perfect metaphor for winter.   It is a cheerful image of colorful wildflowers with butterflies flitting around against a beautiful blue sky.  There’s a quote that says: “Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.”   (2017 Lang Calendar, artwork by Debi Hrom)

Yeah, just when winter looks like things are dead and dying, spring comes again and the world bursts forth with new life!

That’s how it is in this season of the church.  Christians are in the Easter season, the time when we celebrate Jesus as our resurrected Lord, Whose death was the payment for our sins, that we could not only be forgiven of our sins, but also given new life here on earth and life everlasting for those who confess Jesus to be their Savior and Lord.  Jesus offers us a new season, the Season of Hope, taking us from a season of darkness to that of new life!

Those who followed Jesus back in the day were given hope – hope for healing, ending oppression, being cured, and most importantly, being saved.  Crowds came by the thousands to hear Jesus teach the scriptures, and to seek His miracles.  Then came a dark day, when Jesus was crucified as a criminal – an innocent Lamb led to slaughter. He was hung on the cross and died.  Scriptures tell us the mid-day sky became dark, and the earth shook.  How terrifying that must have been, and how tragic for all whose hopes died with Jesus  on that cross.

“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.”

That wasn’t the end of the story, though!  No, the best part of the story was just beginning!  Jesus arose from His grave, fulfilling scriptures and the promises He made to the disciples, and ushered in a new Season of Hope for all who follow Him!

The caterpillar and butterfly are often used to symbolize the life of Jesus.  The caterpillar represents Jesus’ life and ministry, the cocoon represents the three days He was in the tomb, and the butterfly symbolizes Jesus as the resurrected Christ.

“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.”

Just when the “Christ Ones” thought all hope was lost, Hope was born anew through Jesus!

In the verse above, Peter is speaking to the early Christians, reminding them that Jesus’ resurrection is a gift from God the Father to give us the opportunity to be born again!  To be forgiven,  freed.  Peter is telling them, and us, that we can be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of  Jesus. (1 Peter 1:3).  Jesus gives us the Season of Hope.

Peter goes on to tell the early Christians that they will be tested in their faith, that times of trials will come, but that the genuineness of their faith is more valuable than gold – that even though gold is tested by fire, can perish – but our faith will not let us perish, but bring us to rejoice with inexpressible joy, through the revelation of Jesus the Christ, which will give us salvation for our souls.  (1 Peter 1:5-9 paraphrased)

As word spread about the Risen Jesus, Christ followers rejoiced, became stronger in faith, and grew in number.  Then a great persecution began.  It felt like their world was over, so Peter reminded them that just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.  Christians always have the promise of forgiveness and salvation through Jesus the Christ.  It is Jesus that gives us a Season of Hope.

Sometimes the Seasons of our lives are marked by the stages of our lives.  When things are going well and we feel good, we are in the Spring and Summer seasons; but when trials and challenges come, when we are suffering, feel hopeless or oppressed, we are in the Fall and Winter of our lives.  From what we see around us, the winter season can seem cold, dark and bleak, but remember that God is at work in the winter season in ways we cannot see to strengthen us, help our roots of faith grow deeper and prepare us for the Spring to come, beckoning us to the Season of Hope.

Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.

The Season of Hope isn’t a limited to just a few weeks every year.  It is available all year long, 24/7/365.

My prayer for you is adapted from 1 Peter 1:1-2

To followers of Jesus the Christ, wherever you may be, and in whatever situations you might face, according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, in the sanctification of the Spirit, for obedience to Jesus Christ and for sprinkling with his blood:  May grace and peace be multiplied to you.    Amen.







After visiting a friend, I was trying to find my way out of a large hospital, from the top floor to the main entrance.  The first elevator only took me part way.  A hospital employee directed me to another set of elevators.  As I walked, I overheard a man, clearly agitated, also ask for directions.  I told him to come with me, we’d find our way together.
He was an older man with a long, unkept beard.  He wore old clothes – a baggy fleece jacket, flannel shirt, t-shirt, jeans and old shoes.  He was carrying a white plastic bag with items inside.  Yes, he was definitely agitated, his eyes darting around and his brows drawn tightly down.
I said something to make small talk while we waited for the next elevator.  His darting eyes then focused on me, and looking me straight in the eyes, he told me he just lost his son.  “Oh, sir, I’m so sorry,” I said as I put my hand on his arm.  He went on to say that “it happened on Thursday and they pulled the plug today.”
By this time a few other people were waiting with us.  I shared that the man had just lost his son.  Another man offered condolences and asked how the son died.  Attempted suicide.
Then the father’s agitation turned to anger and he told us that no one had come to see his son.  Only his sister and her family had come to Charlotte to be with them.  Then he pointed upward and said at least now I know my son is ok and he’ll be up there.
“I’m glad you had time with him,” I said. Yes, he replied, still angry, but the others didn’t come, and in his anger he vowed to “take care of them” next time he sees them.
“Oh, sir,” I said, “I hope you’ll give these things to God.  Please give your anger and grief to Him.”  At that time the elevator arrived and our small group entered.  The others kept their distance, but my heart went out to this hurting man.
I asked if the bag held his son’s belongings.  “No. These things are for me.  I live on the streets.  My sister brought me a fresh change of clothes.”
(Grieving and homeless?  Could his situation be any worse?)
Just then the elevator door opened.  We were finally on the ground floor.  I silently prayed asking God what I could do, should do for this man – buy him food, offer money?  The man hurried off the elevator and got ahead of me.  His sister was waiting for him, so I went on, saying silent prayers for him as I exited the hospital.
Tonight there is a homeless man on the streets, carrying a bag of clothes and a heart full of grief after losing his 31-year old son, whose death he witnessed when life support ended.  I pray he’s in a shelter with people to help him through this difficult time.

My problems seem so small.

All I could do was pray, but I trust God will make good on my prayers.

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”  – Matthew 5:4


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